Happiness is an Inside Job

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One of my favorite living spiritual writers is fond of the expression, "Happiness is an inside job." Pondering that shines a light on the disquietude so many people express as they focus on, "what is wrong with the world." Richard Rohr points out to his listeners and readers that if we are looking "out there" for the world to make us happy, we will never be satisfied. Instead, happiness is something that comes from within when we choose to allow the love of Christ fill our hearts and respond accordingly. 

When we are children, we look to our parents for direction, including the joy of this season. We might accept their love in the form of tangible gifts under the tree and delicious meals. People often feel an edge of disappointment as we come of age and the "magic" of Christmas fades. Sometimes the joy returns when we discover the more fulfilling action of giving gifts to others. That may come from wrapping gifts for  family members, even our own children, or the joy of the season may come from giving to those who are less fortunate than ourselves by providing gifts to strangers or serving meals to the hungry. Those are great examples showing,"Happiness is an inside job." It is a decision to give back, instead of waiting in vain for the world to fulfill our deepest desires. 


I know I'm getting ahead of the story here, but that baby born in a manger, grew up and taught about the love he had received form his parents. He taught more about love than any other topic. He showed love by healing, feeding, raising the dead, and getting on his knees to wash his disciples feet. The Way of Jesus is about loving-service to others. Grateful I get to witness loving service almost daily: People serving at the food pantry, organizing toy and clothing drives, the volunteers at our thrift store, and those who show up faithfully to serve around the altar. It's not a theory, I've seen the evidence. Happiness is an inside job. 

This holiday season is a great time to reflect on your life in relationship with others. It's nice to be able to practice loving service among family and friends, or even a church community. Practice and it may become a habit; this is the Way Jesus is still teaching us. Happy Christmas.  

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